You can have that sweet female friend

                             

                                            YOU CAN HAVE THAT SWEET FEMALE FRIEND

Oh!yes you can or better still, BE ONE

Females working together are often cats and dogs. They are always competing with one another in dressing, make-up, grades of shakara and tasks even when they are no reasons for competitions.  They are always looking for ways to outshine one another. They always make themselves feel relevant and important than their colleagues.

However, working with the male gender in organizations, companies, and even in competitions is not the same. They get along well and get their work done ASAP. Even when competitions come up, one gender can be so humble to let the other win.

Anytime you see two or more female together in one corner or in the dark during work or busy hours, they are either gossiping or planning coup for an innocent female soul.

The thing is just inbuilt. It is done unconsciously overtime before it eventually becomes a habit. The female world is a complex and complicated world. It is filled with different types of emotions that should be tamed or destroyed.

C. JoyBell C. have this to say “I just believe that us as women-should not criticize nor pull down other women. And why? Because we’re all just trying our best to be beautiful! We all want to be loved, we all trying to leave our own legacy! The good news is that the universe is unending and that means there is enough space for each woman on earth to leave her own mark and to be her own legacy. To be her own kind of beautiful. So why spend time even a second on trying to take away from another woman? Trying to steal, trying to criticize, trying to oppress? There is enough space for every woman and every kind of beautiful, in this vast cosmos! When you waste any amount of time trying to take what is another’s-you are wasting your huge chunk of a galaxy that’s already been given to you!”

Females can have that one sweet female friend or many female friends and put an end to the problems women face in the world. Females can put an end to gossips, envy, anger, hatred, strive and malice amidst them by creating genuine friendship amidst themselves. 

No matter how beautiful you are, how strong you are, how hard emotionally you think you may be and how many boys that answer you before you whisper, you still need that one female friend.

When the men’s ears get weary of hearing, hands tired of hugging, mouth tired of talking , hearts tired of caring and eyes tired of seeing, who are you goanna turn to? 

Creating that one female friendship/friendships does have to be grand or tasking as one may envision.

It can start with words and actions like “ Ayo,Ayo, ore mi atata, kinni o ma je”, “You are the most terrific gift to earth and a drug addict does not deserve you” , “I went shopping this weekend and I got you this blazer you will look officially hot in it”, “I am here for you baby, call me if you need anything”.

The best of friendships are not those with the opposite sex that comes with lots of side attractions like sex, emotional blackmails, kisses, give and take, wastage of money and time etc. that is why Fulton J.Sheen will say that the difference between the love of a man and the love of a woman is that a man will always give reasons for loving but a woman gives no reasons for loving.

The best of friendship is that with the female sex, though married, with plenty children, old, wrinkled, you can still hang out together under the moonlight and relive memories of strawberries friendship

Ruth was that one friend that stick closer than a brother during the bad days of Naomi life. When her husband and sons died, she still had Ruth to lean on.

Who says one can’t have that one sweet female friend?

Who says you can’t be that one sweet female friend? 

It is up to you!!!

Written by Munu Ogheneochuko