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Hey,TGIF,what am I even thankful for?

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I am right here in my office doing a TGIF post on Instagram for my Company and a question in my post got me thinking. The question is Relax, Smile, Think Deep and Answer this question; What are you thankful for? Well, I am relaxed now, I have smiled for some few seconds but I am still thinking of what I am thankful for in the last five days. I do not know if your week has been like mine oh! Mine have seriously been stressful. I am always thinking all hours of the day at work. I am seriously serious, as in, I am always thinking of what to write, thinking of  what to post, thinking of what and how to answer my Oga and Boss questions, thinking of how to get customers and clients  for my company (by the way, I work in a food company, so please contact me on behalf of my company for food for any occasion). My list of thoughts is endless. Hey, (hands akimbo) should I be thankful for thinking too much? I am not done thinking oh, TRAFFIC, TRAFFIC, TRAFFIC, LOW POWER SUPPLY AND SER

THE POWER OF LOVE, NOT LOVE SONGS

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Love songs can be really mushy, Love songs can get one  all emotional, Love songs can get one high like being are on drugs, Love songs can give one some kind of catching cold symptoms, No doubt, Love songs are beautiful. Especially those love songs from the '80s and '90s Have you felt the power of love songs in movies or even relationships? Well, The power of love is even greater. In fact, it is nothing compared to what is in love songs.  The kind of love I am talking about is not the type of relationship love. I mean The God's kind of love, the love we have been commanded to show to one another, THE SECOND GREATEST COMMANDMENT IN HISTORY, "..and the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbour as yourself.   All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments."   (Mattew 22:39). Jesus furthered gave this commandment again in  John 15:12-13 This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you. Greater love hath no man than this, th

MY FIRST DAY AT WORK

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Hello dear, I just got a new job a few weeks ago and I just thought of sharing my first-day experience with you all.  Before now, I have not been the 8-6 sitting and working kind of person, So this is my first, Nah, second, abi, third official office job. So here, I have a boss and then I have an OGA.  OGA is OGA, just leave it like that. You will know their positions later. Let me gist you about my interview first. It was a seriously long weird interview filled with tension (like they made me believe that the interview questions were supposed to make me feel relax but not so true, I was still tensed).  My OGA was at the interview,  He wanted me all gusty, hitting all the nails in the head but I was a not...my personal confession. Please be a gusty person when you are been interviewed. Three days later, I missed several calls from an unknown caller. I thought it was a particular person I did not save his number and I assumed he will definitely call back. On the fourth day, I

THINGS MEN WANT AT EVERY RELATIONSHIP STAGE

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When you know the needs or wants of a man, you can be able to please him better and make him happier. One myopic view ,we , ladies have about a relationship is that they think a man’s greatest need is SEX. Sorry to burst your bubbles, a man greatest need in any relationship is not sex. If it was, any man can easily go to places like “Empire” or “Allen Avenue” or “White House” etc. and start a great relationship with ladies there. But most men do not. Some just have sex, pay and leave. End of story! So here are his needs at every stage of a relationship: 1. PRE-DATING STAGE  At this stage, all a man need is your “Chase” and “IQ”. He wants you to show him the stuffs you are made of. He wants you to give him the chance of sweeping you off your feet. He does not want sex. Even if he tells you, pressure you into it, he is a liar. Make him wait. Make him chase you. Make him use his brain to be creative. Do not just say yes, make him chase you well. 2. DATING STAGE: At this stag

ONE HEART, TWICE BROKEN

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I don't know how to start this, sincerely, I don't...but l guess hmmmmm........will d o   'I don't share' songs echo in the background He laughs, I frowned, 'I don't share' songs echo in the background. He laughs, I frowned. ' No rivals' songs echo in the background He laughs, I frowned 'No rivals' songs echo in the background He laughs, I frown. Then finally he spoke... You got no rivals He who compares himself with another is not wise. Trust I learnt Love I trust 2 ingredients for the best dish Then in my absence... My kisses were shared I cried, Oh no!!! Oh yes!!! I forgave I thought a kiss was just a kiss I should have hissed and fought But what use is that What's mine is mine What isn't,isn't  There, then, I took a leave Weeds choking me Love wouldn't do it Space and time would Then I returned, My heart shared too My heart was taken away Occupied by my rival One heart, twice

BEFUDDLED BY LOVE

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                                                                                              BOOM!!! That was not the sound of a gunshot! It was not the sound of a bomb blast either. It was the sound of Tunde's broken heart shattered by the only woman he ever loved. He heard it anytime he saw a lady he liked. He had been befuddled from his first and only love experience. He had gotten into a relationship with Nimi on her 21st birthday after a year of a hot chase. She captured every man's attention at first sight. She was endowed with good body curves complimented with a tiny waist. She walked like the world rotated around her beauty. She had taste for exotic things that could make any man go bankrupt. Tunde did not mind, he was willing to spend all he had on her.  He loved her and he showed it in the way he looked at her, touched her, kissed her, and with the gifts, he showered on her. 'What is love without actions My World?' He often whispered in her ears

THE PAINS OF BEING OVERESTIMATED OR UNDERESTIMATED, WHICH IS WORST?

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O verestimation is the 6ft elegant and energetic girl walking on the road with no interest in modelling or sports but feeling bad about herself because the world feels she is wasting her height.   U nderestimation is the twin sister of overestimation. Unlike Overestimation, she is small, soft spoken, looks fragile and the world does not believe that she has anything to offer. Which is worse? Which have you experienced? To be overestimated is really beautiful. Well…maybe on the surface. Those who package themselves well,   have good charisma and can call on a good fight tend to be overestimated a lot.    Mr John used to be very efficient and a good spoke person as a junior Clerk until the boss promoted him to the Head of Customer Relations Department. Realities dawned on him that the tasks were beyond the big suits and the ability to talk.     He struggled for months to meet up with the demanding expectations of his boss and pass over the overestimations of hi