Grey Stripes Of Sarah

                                            Dilemma  Where has your beloved gone, most beautiful of women? Which way did your beloved turn, that we may look for him with you?   I hate to admit I am in a relationship, I hate to admit I am single, I don’t why! But who whoever knows me, knows that I am either in one.  So why can’t I be truthful to myself and just choose one?  I don’t know! Maybe what if happens to the biblical…. that’s neither hot nor cold happen to me.  So Val is coming pretty early for me this year. There is a Val show centred on relationships, romance and love this weekend.  It’s free!!! I mean it’s freaking free… You don’t fully get it right A 3-course banquet for dinner, Then karaoke.. that su...

When you know the needs or wants of a man, you can be able to please him better and make him happier. One myopic view ,we , ladies have about a relationship is that they think a man’s greatest need is SEX. Sorry to burst your bubbles, a man greatest need in any relationship is not sex. If it was, any man can easily go to places like “Empire” or “Allen Avenue” or “White House” etc. and start a great relationship with ladies there. But most men do not. Some just have sex, pay and leave. End of story! So here are his needs at every stage of a relationship: 1. PRE-DATING STAGE  At this stage, all a man need is your “Chase” and “IQ”. He wants you to show him the stuffs you are made of. He wants you to give him the chance of sweeping you off your feet. He does not want sex. Even if he tells you, pressure you into it, he is a liar. Make him wait. Make him chase you. Make him use his brain to be creative. Do not just say yes, make him chase you well. 2. DATING STAGE: At this ...

     The pains of been cheated on can be quite suffocating! XTREMLY painful!!! You may even wonder what you do not possess that the person possess that got you cheated on in the first instance. On a beautiful valentine day, Ronke had a beautiful dinner surprise for the guy she loved. As he walked into the room, he was surprised. They have not seen in 6 months so he was not even expecting her After the hugs and warm greetings, Ronke observed he was not comfortable.  “Segun, what is wrong?” she asked After some minutes, he turned his face to hers and bowed his head. “I am sorry, I cheated on you while you were away”. That will be Segun third time of cheating on her. She yelled  at him, pulled his shirt, poured all the food on him and walked away. It was the first time of her reacting to his cheating exploits. They got back together after one year of series of work on Segun path to prove to Ronke he w...

Survival tips to live on if your ex or crush is getting married and you are still single The camera captured Chelsy Davy, Harry’s ex looking beautiful in a navy blue dress and a matching cape at the royal wedding of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle yesterday. She had a beautiful smile on her face and she looked happy for him. However, during the ceremony, the camera captured her again. This time, her face looked different. She appeared deep in thoughts.  What if you were in her shoes, would you be happy?  What if you heard about it a week before the wedding?  What if it just does not make sense to you? “How come?” Your ex is getting married next week…the ex you really love. You even thought you two were going to make up after some months. Perhaps your crush. The guy or lady you have imagined saying ‘Yes I will’ to plenty times.  You are heartbroken… You are angry… You are upset… You are actually looking forward to seeing your rival a...

                                                                           YOU CAN HAVE THAT SWEET FEMALE FRIEND Oh!yes you can or better still, BE ONE Females working together are often cats and dogs. They are always competing with one another in dressing, make-up, grades of shakara and tasks even when they are no reasons for competitions.  They are always looking for ways to outshine one another. They always make themselves feel relevant and important than their colleagues. However, working with the male gender in organizations, companies, and even in competitions is not the same. They get along well and get their work done ASAP. Even when competitions come up, one gender can be so humble to let the other win. Anytime you see two or more female together in one corner or in...